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The great Don Shula was a football genius, the winningest coach in NFL history whose 1972 Miami Dolphins remain the league's only perfect team. Shula, who died Monday morning at 90, was a Hall of Famer in every way, a cornerstone of the game as it became America’s pastime.

I knew him as all that, and more.

It was the summer of 1980, and as a college intern at the Miami Herald, I was dispatched to Dolphins' training camp with a specific assignment: to ask about problems with Miami’s running game.

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Eight years earlier, as a young girl in Toledo, I had been writing fan letters to Shula and his players. Now, I was standing five feet from him in a knot of reporters and camera crews. It was the first time I had seen him in person. I was no longer a fan; I was a journalist, and this was no time to waver.

“Coach, what’s wrong with the running game?”

Don Shula sitting at a table: Pro Football Hall of Fame coach Don Shula laughs during an interview with The Associated Press at his home in Indian Creek, Fla., Nov. 8, 2007. © Wilfredo Lee, AP Pro Football Hall of Fame coach Don Shula laughs during an interview with The Associated Press at his home in Indian Creek, Fla., Nov. 8, 2007.

Shula, who was sitting on a bench, slowly looked up to see who had asked that question. He clearly didn’t like it. He glared at me.

“Well, you know, we ran the ball pretty well the other day,” he started out, looking utterly disgusted with me. He then listed a few positive statistics about his running backs.

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I stood my ground and followed up by asking if he planned any changes.

“No.”

His stare told me there would be no more questions from me on that day.

I was back at Dolphins’ camp the next week, in the same gaggle of journalists, when Shula smiled and said hello. It was the beginning of one of the most wonderful coach-reporter relationships I have ever had.

When I returned to the Herald to start my career after finishing at Northwestern, my beat was college football, but I often was assigned to help out on the Dolphins, particularly on game days. I soon realized that the gruff and demanding Don Shula was, well, a feminist – although he wouldn’t have liked the term, certainly not back then.

Normally after games, I waited in loading docks under stadiums for players to be brought to me for interviews as the male reporters went into the locker room to do their jobs. But with the Dolphins, I walked right into the locker room with everyone else.

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Why? In 1981, Shula told all of his players that they were going to wear robes, because women like me were being assigned to cover the NFL, and he was going to make sure we had the same access as men did.

Leave it to the innovative mind of Don Shula to find a way to solve a problem before everyone else did; it wasn’t until 1985 that NFL Commissioner Pete Rozelle made equal locker room access mandatory for every team. And, let’s be honest; to this day, there are coaches who still believe women in sports media shouldn’t be allowed equal access to conduct interviews and do their jobs. Shula had it all figured out before some of those guys were even born.

After one game, I was in the Dolphins’ locker room conducting an interview when I felt a slight tug on my elbow. I really didn’t want to be interrupted. I kept on working. The tug came again. I swung around impatiently.

It was Shula.

“Everything going okay in here?”

The question startled me. “Ah, you bet, Coach,” I said, hoping I didn’t look as perturbed as I felt a moment earlier. “Everything’s great, thanks.”

“Good,” he said, smiling kindly. “Keep up the good work.”

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Over the years, I ran into Shula at NFL meetings, and we always stopped and caught up. I called him occasionally for USA TODAY columns, seeking his thoughts on various subjects.

He always was the voice of reason in the NFL. When the league was debating the use of instant replay, his words sealed the deal for many. “If people sitting in their living rooms can see a play is called incorrectly, then we should be able to see it too,” he said.

The last time I spoke to him was several years ago. I interviewed him for a column I was writing, then we talked about the old days in Miami.

Anytime we spoke, I always made sure to thank him, as I did that day.

“For what?” he said.

“For not going easy on me,” I replied. “For toughening me up when I was just starting.”

He laughed heartily. “I wasn’t that tough, was I?”

“No, Coach, not at all.”

This article originally appeared on USA TODAY: Opinion: The great Don Shula was gruff and demanding, but I saw a softer side

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